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Winner Winner Chicken Dinner

Winner Winner Chicken Dinner

Ok..it’s been a couple days since I talked to Deidre and promised I would share a recipe that is a family favourite. I got stuck! How can that be?! Pondering, salivating and thinking of all the recipes we have enjoyed over the years..it’s changed so […]

Easy Breezy Beefy Stroganoff

Easy Breezy Beefy Stroganoff

Whenever I interview a chef or cook or foodie-like person, I inevitably ask them to describe their favourite childhood meal. It never fails. They get a dreamy, cloudy, soft look on their face as they drift back into their days of innocence. More often than […]

Three-step Seafood Ceviche

Three-step Seafood Ceviche

In our house, I often refer to my guy as ‘Chef’. Although I am using it as a term of endearment, he dislikes this title intensely.  Mostly because he feels it hasn’t been earned. As a culinary school grad, he has massive respect for his […]

Hot Nights. Cool Noodles!

Hot Nights. Cool Noodles!

Addiction…it’s a difficult thing to shake. I’ve been fighting off a big one for years now. Just when I feel like I’ve turned a corner…there it is. Although I have cut back a lot in the last few years, every once in awhile a new […]

Let’s Get Ready to CRUMBLE!

Let’s Get Ready to CRUMBLE!

I’m the first one to admit I don’t like baking. It’s too uptight for me. I’ll do it because I love my family and I like to know what actually goes into their food…but inside…I’m screaming! TOO MANY RULES! Honestly, I don’t even like writing […]

Tequila Corn

Tequila Corn

It’s rare to meet someone who doesn’t like corn on the cob. An epitome of summer foods, the smell of it boiling strong enough to draw people in from miles around. Unless you are blessed with a rack of metal wires across your teeth, it’s […]

Scrumptious Spot Prawns in Sauce

Scrumptious Spot Prawns in Sauce

If you choose to eat in-season, selecting foods that are available only at certain times of year, it can be a challenge. I admit it…I’m weak. I buy frozen mango year round and am often tempted by the luscious tropical fruits that have been imported […]

An Apple a Day

An Apple a Day

I adore apples. They smell like love, not smarmy, hot-hot-hot love, but enveloping, wonderful hugs love. When I first left home and went to University in Victoria, I had a Great Aunt & Uncle living nearby. Aunt Sonya & Uncle Joe were Great AND they […]

Paws and Effect!

Paws and Effect!

When we think of family, many of us include our fine & furry friends. I’ve always had a bit of a soft spot for my animals. I grew up with a mischeviously clever poodle named “Pokey” who was a true friend, entrusted to all my […]

Turkey Chili to Gobble Down

Turkey Chili to Gobble Down

Oh the weather outside is frightful…but the fire is so delightful! Sometimes that delightful fire can be on the inside, a warming, enticing slow burn that you experience with a big, fat bowl of chili. I make it often, all the kids love it. It’s […]


My Diary

Best Served Raw. One Year Later.

Best Served Raw. One Year Later.

Woke up early this morning needing to write this and was amused when my computer informed me that it’s the one year anniversary of JaPoG. It’s been fun, challenging and wellllll…peppered with ‘ah-hah’ moments.

Things I didn’t plan on when starting this innocent little blog:

  • The hard work! The research, the writing, the photos…elbow grease required!
  • Writer’s block, it’s real and it is NOT my friend.
  • Interviewing people, best thing ever and EVERYONE has a thought provoking story, some so inspiring…it hurt.
  • That so many people would be interested in what I had to say, shocks me every day and builds me up.
  • The accountability to my readers matters to me, truth in my stories became a priority and forced me to look at my life and make changes…

Some teensy changes, like buying more locally sourced food, trying new places to eat, meeting new people and some rather monumental changes…

Like ending my twenty year marriage.

For many months I’ve wrestled with just how much is cool to share on this venue. I genuinely want my blog to reflect the lighter, softer side of life. Unfortunately, it’s not all strawberries and whipped cream, is it? There you have it. My first post to you was about truth. So to be truthful, this past year has been a whole lot of darkness…sprinkled with glorious moments of light.

I know people who have been through much more traumatizing, terrifying and heart wrenching situations, but this is my blog and this was my hell. Most of my writers block has been caused by the fact that, while dealing with overwhelming grief, frustration and worry, I was trying to share stories with a upbeat, positive voice. Hard, actually… impossible to do.

The details of why my husband and I broke up will not be the subject of a post. Primarily because it’s nobody’s damn business, partly because it would be kinda boring and finally because…I am not even sure yet. I had the fairy tale life. Met a great guy in University, he became a successful professional, I stayed home and had babies…lotsa babies. We went on adventures together, created six incredible kids, built a life, created a home…we were indeed a dynamic team. Sadly, while we were so busy patting ourselves on the back about how awesome we were at this whole “life” thing, we forgot about something really important. Ourselves.

Such a cliche’ right? Eventually we realized we had gone our separate ways without knowing it and were not being the best people for each other. It was agonizing to go through the realization that we would probably be better parents apart, than together. Although, we did agree on this, don’t let me fool you into thinking it was easy or a flippant decision. Pretty sure I should have invested in the Kleenex company this year, waterworks central over here. It isn’t fun to end a relationship with a person you actually still love and then go through all these moments where the right words just don’t come. So you end up with long gazes, heavy with things unsaid. Or the horrible alternative; sharp words spat out too soon…ones that if you could turn back time, you would instead swallow.

It’s not over, we have lots of crappy stuff to go through yet, but I know that because we adore our kids and we are both decent human beings, we will work it out and life will go on. Although there is a pile of sadness, there is hope too. A fresh start, a chance to spread my wings a little, try new things, friends that have emerged, more light…less dark. Working through finding yourself again isn’t easy but it feels …refreshing.

I’m not jaded about marriage or romance or true love. Love it up people! That’s what life is about. I will spend more time in my life doing things I cherish, with people I love while facing new challenges. I’ve discovered I am a lot stronger than I thought I was. Writing allowed me to face a lot of things I had been avoiding. I encourage any of you who are working through challenges to write them down, just for yourself.

Sooo that is what’s new around here. Now it’s time for a toast. “Cheers to a fresh year for Just A Pinch! ” More recipes,stories about how crazy life is, interviews with cool people, a new look for the blog (coming soon), a few added business ideas and best of all, more new friends. Thanks so much to you for joining me on my adventures…I have appreciated the company!

“Speak the truth, even if your voice shakes.” ~ Maggie Kuhn